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Briana Marie Brownlow – A Celebration of her life.

December 15, 2008 by shankari  
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We celebrated the life of Bri in Santa Rosa yesterday. I don’t think I can do justice in describing how beautiful the it was, I can only try.

The hall was filled with people who loved Bri dearly. We cried a little, laughed a bit, and it was unanimous that we can never forget Bri. I write this post to let all of you know that her friends and family thanked the blogging community profusely. A farmer from the local farmer’s market was there, her insurance agent- she was their customer, but you can tell how she touched their lives. Her insurance agent said that Bri changed her life. The farmer said Bri would have been happy to see him bringing a larger variety of vegetables.Her uncle remembered visiting Bri & her mom when she was a child. Bri would tread into the the living room on her toes, so she does’nt disturb her uncle’s sleep to watch her favorite cartoons.

It was touching to hear Cynthe tell us about Bri’s concern for all around her and especially for Marc, Bri asked, “Will Marc be ok?”

Bri’s friend, Corie was overcome with emotions when she talked. She said, she kpt praying for Bri, praying for a miracle to happen and then realized that Bri is the Miracle. Marc had created a beautiful audio visual of her life- It said it all. I read the tributes from a few bloggers and some readers.
Nicisme
Jen Yu
Anita
Bee

Pictures taken by Anita (Married with dinner)

Here is a slideshow from yesterday and my tribute to her…
I was introduced to Bri in April of last year when another blogger friend Bee sent me an email to ask if I would be willing to work with her to conduct a fundraiser for Bri. Reading Bri’s blog I felt connected to this wonderful person, whose enthusiasm and passion for life was simply contagious.

I got to know Bri & Cynthe more through emails and a few phone calls. What impressed me was the determination and courage that we saw in Bri in the circumstances and the strength, encouragement and love that Marc, Cynthe & bill showered on her. Along with Bee & jai, we visited Bri in September.When we met in person, I was even more humbled by her personality At that time, Her neck was in a cast because of the hairline compression fractures caused to her spine after the cancer metastasized to her bones. While I was worried that I might cry when I see her, she changed the mood to that of a happy reunion . She remained calm,serene, and remembered to ask Bee of her trip to Grand Teton, to ask us of our adoption journey, of my cooking classes and said she was hoping to come to Sacramento to take a few of my Indian cooking classes. I asked her how she she was doing she said,”I am doing great this hour”. I learnt a few life lessons in that very short time. She taught me to enjoy life one minute at a time and be thankful with everything we have and not worry about what we don’t. I will end my part of the tribute with a quote which sums up who Bri was to me

I am not afraid of tomorrow, for I have seen yesterday and I love today.”- William Allen White

We miss you Bri.

Comments

12 Responses to “Briana Marie Brownlow – A Celebration of her life.”
  1. bee says:

    Thanks for the slideshow and for allowing us all to be a part of this event, dear Shankari and Rajesh.

  2. Balaji S Rajan says:

    Shankari,

    Thanks for sharing every thing about Bri. Her words are my philosophy. I also tell the same to everyone. She seems to be a nice person. I know how you must have felt those days. Good people leave us ,to be near to god always.

  3. Manisha says:

    Beautiful! So glad you were there! And that rainbow at the end of the slideshow is so fitting!!

    Hugs to you both!

  4. Anita (Married... with dinner) says:

    Shankari –

    It was an honor to have our tributes read by you. Thank you for taking on this difficult task; your love for Bri was so clearly felt.

    I have a few photos from yesterday, as well. If you are interested in seeing the slideshow, it’s here: http://www.flickr.com/photos/marriedwithdinner/sets/72157611270562998/

  5. Kalai says:

    Thank you for sharing your touching tribute with all of us. Bri was truly an inspiration.

  6. Happy cook says:

    I totally agree bri has touched all our lifes.
    I will always remember her beautiful smile.
    Thankyou fro the slide show .

  7. nicisme says:

    Thank you so much for reading the tributes and for sharing the slideshow.
    Take care,
    Nic

  8. Sharmi says:

    Thanks for sharing the wonderful tribute. I am so touched by reading the post. thanks for sharing the slideshow.

  9. Laavanya says:

    Thanks for this post Shankari.. Bri was truly an inspiration.

  10. Madhuram says:

    That was nice reading about Bri. The more and more I read about her, the more and more I wish I had known her.

  11. Navita says:

    Shankari…I wish I had met Bri…read about her life and felt connected…first ar Bee’s site n now at yours!
    The warmth exudes from your words.

    I am new here, on blogosphere. Love this place even more after findind such touching souls .

  12. Revathi says:

    That is a lovely tribute Shankari. I can feel how heavy you would have felt after meeting Bri for the first time.

    Take care, wishing you and Rajesh a wonderfully happy new year that is blessed in everyway..

    Call me sometime or I will give you a call.

    God Bless.

    Revathi

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